FAQ's

Q I AM A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER OF A SOLE PARENT AND KNOW THAT THE ABSENT PARENT WAS REJECTED BY THE CHILD BECAUSE I KNOW THAT THEY REALLY ARE SUCH A BAD PARENT

A You might think that you are hearing of the bad parenting practices from a range of sources however the sole source of information supplying all these people could be the sole parent caring for the child. The Family Court process is a winner takes all contest and this means; all contact that a parent and his/her family has with a child, most of the family assets, most of the usuable future income, subsidised legal aid, government benefits, support from a huge amount amount of people that have come to accept the idea that sole parents should be placed on a pedastal. It is therefore not unsurprising that in Family Court cases many parents present their side of the story very different to what it actually was by; omitting things wrong they have done, bending the truth or even outright telling lies. The fact that perjury is not punnishable in the Family Court gets some people used to telling lies. The stress of Court proceedings can make people delusional with an unwillingness to ever retract beliefs they later know as false because of the consequences.

Some ordinary very decent people find the stress of loosing contact with their children and nearly all their assets and income too much and act badly after this happens. This poor behaviour is often used manipulatively against the parent to deny them all contact with their child under an adversarial legal system.